The Velveteen Father

By Jesse Green

Subjects: Gay parents, Case studies, Lambda Literary Awards, Lambda Literary Award Winner, Gay fathers -- United States -- Case studies, New York Times reviewed, LGBTQ biography and memoir, Adoptive parents, Adoptive parents -- United States -- Case studies, LGBTQ parenting, Gay fathers

Description: Being a parent was not a high priority--or even much of a likelihood--for acclaimed journalist and novelist Jesse Green. Yet when Green, at the age of thirty-seven, fell in love with a man who had recently adopted a baby boy, fatherhood suddenly fell into his lap. Now in this warm, humorous, deeply personal book, Green recounts the unexpected journey he and his partner traveled together on the road to parenthood. In becoming the father--or rather one of the fathers--of Erez, Green faced challenges familiar to all parents, from the first bath to the first tooth, along with a host of dilemmas unique to his situation. As Green discovered, even in blasé New York City, reactions to his unconventional family ranged from the funny to the frightening, the unaccepting to the all-embracing. The Velveteen Father is a moving record of the transformative effects parenthood can have on people who least expect to become parents-- and of how we are repeatedly made anew by the love of children who need us.